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Our History

Our History

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Our story started on the virtual social media platform, Facebook. A small number of women gathered in a closed private group to discuss their gender identities, sexualities, sexual health, and rights. 

Note that I will be using the term “women” in reference to all women, from diverse sexual and gender identities and orientations.

When I created this group, I did not anticipate the journey we had started on! My initial aim was to create a space for women to freely express themselves, ask questions without being shamed, and receive trustworthy, accurate, and respectful answers to their questions.

A space where women’s experiences, needs, and feelings are centered and most importantly, a space where all women, with all their colorful diversity, could exist, peacefully and freely.

But I would not have imagined that, in five years’ time, our small community group would become a pioneering, leading organisation, led by Arab women from all over the world, offering feminist, queer, positive, and inclusive knowledge and services in Arabic.

Fatma Ibrahim

Fatma Ibrahim

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Of course, I won’t pretend it was an easy journey, with no obstacles. Instead, I want to tell the story by centering and celebrating the dedicated women who believed in this movement from the start and volunteered their time, and expertise for it to continue and expand. The story of the young, queer, Arab feminists, who worked independently to pave the way for a digital feminist revolution on sexual health and rights in the region.
Of course, I won’t pretend it was an easy journey, with no obstacles. Instead, I want to tell the story by centering and celebrating the dedicated women who believed in this movement from the start and volunteered their time, and expertise for it to continue and expand. The story of the young, queer, Arab feminists, who worked independently to pave the way for a digital feminist revolution on sexual health and rights in the region.

On a cold winter evening

Fatma created a

Facebook group

and named it...
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“The numbers are growing, people are incredibly enthusiastic about this group!”

“I need help organising our posts and replying to every question … I am going to post a call for volunteers!”

" I can’t believe the number of people who are willing to help! A group of doctors from various medical fields and specialisations gathered and announced that they could help answer the questions posted by the members, and they offered their services for free too!!"
” I can’t believe the number of people who are willing to help! A group of doctors from various medical fields and specialisations gathered and announced that they could help answer the questions posted by the members, and they offered their services for free too!!”
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Writers are volunteering to write with me
Writers are volunteering to write with me
Researchers are offering help too
Researchers are offering help too
Doctors
Doctors
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Writers
Writers
Some women are offering to help in moderating and operating the group.
Some women are offering to help in moderating and operating the group.
On a cold winter evening

On a cold winter evening

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Fatma created a

Facebook group

and called it...
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“The numbers are growing, people are incredibly enthusiastic about this group!”

“I need help organising our posts and replying to every question … I am going to post a call for volunteers!”

" I can’t believe the number of people who are willing to help! A group of doctors from various medical fields and specialisations gathered and announced that they could help answer the questions posted by the members, and they offered their services for free too!!"
” I can’t believe the number of people who are willing to help! A group of doctors from various medical fields and specialisations gathered and announced that they could help answer the questions posted by the members, and they offered their services for free too!!”

A Digital Safe Space For All Women

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Where is the introduction post?

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Eman

Eman

“Last night I tried commenting and answering some questions in a FB group that I’m part of. Women were asking about their bodies and sexualities … so I tried to rectify and deconstruct some of the terms they used, which were demeaning! The terms they used were enabling gendered violence towards ourselves and our bodies … but then I heard about this other new group called The Sex Talk Arabic … I was thrilled, over the moon! finally a space where we can talk about sexuality with positivity! 

“Fatma, how can I help?”

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Is it normal to buy a condom?

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Is it normal to have a smell after period?

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Malak 

Malak 

“Why is it that feminist spaces here are often exclusionary of transwomen?! I keep wondering when would these spaces be inclusive of trans women so that I can express myself and my gender identity freely without feeling like I’m starting a war every time I speak. When will people understand that transwomen are women and they have the right to self-expression without being bullied or harassed or accused of being “men” invading women’s spaces? I’m fed up with these “feminist” groups”… I am tired now, I will sleep, and tomorrow I will check this new group called The Sex Talk Arabic, maybe it is the one!”

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ARAB WOMEN FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD

ARAB WOMEN FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD

This group is for Arab women anywhere in the world, to access resources on sex education and sexual health and rights, in Arabic. It is a safe space to discuss everything related to sex and sexualities, and claim our body rights which we have been deprived of due to stigma and shame inhirited in our cultures.
This group is for Arab women anywhere in the world, to access resources on sex education and sexual health and rights, in Arabic. It is a safe space to discuss everything related to sex and sexualities, and claim our body rights which we have been deprived of due to stigma and shame inhirited in our cultures.
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JOINED TO SUPPORT THE MOVEMENT

JOINED TO SUPPORT THE MOVEMENT

Creating A Visual Identity (2018- 2023)

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"Can someone help us create a logo?"
“Can someone help us create a logo?”
"I have been wanting to offer any help I could to this wonderful space and participate somehow in building the movement. I came across a post where Fatma mentioned she needed help creating a logo for The Sex Talk Arabic… I thought, Well, I might put my skills into action now, let me try to help her create one!’”
"I have been wanting to offer any help I could to this wonderful space and participate somehow in building the movement. I came across a post where Fatma mentioned she needed help creating a logo for The Sex Talk Arabic… I thought, Well, I might put my skills into action now, let me try to help her create one!’”
Nouran

Nouran

Nouran

Nouran

“I have been wanting to offer any help I could to this wonderful space and participate somehow in building the movement. I came across a post where Fatma mentioned she needed help creating a logo for The Sex Talk Arabic… I thought, Well, I might put my skills into action now, let me try to help her create one!’”

How We Look In 2023

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Expanding our reach & fighting biased technologies (2018- 2023)

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"Facebook blocked our page, is there anyone who can help?"
“Facebook blocked our page, is there anyone who can help?”
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Rosanna

Rosanna

“I was extremely happy when I joined The Sex Talk Arabic group. The amount of knowledge shared, and the enriching discussions that took place throughout it were just brilliant… Sometimes I indulge in the debates and other times I just follow the discussions silently, until one day I found Fatma asking if anyone can help as Facebook removed the newly created public page. I offered to contact Facebook on her behalf and succeeded in retrieving the page, since then, I became an active member of the team.”

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"We then started making use of

other social media platforms and

our community continues to grow..."
"This content goes against our community standards."
"This account is temporarily banned"
" This page has been deleted for violating community standards. "
“This content goes against our community standards.” “This account is temporarily banned” ” This page has been deleted for violating community standards. “
"Social Media community standards are biased against women and queer people. Those working on setting up these standards do not understand our context and the need for our work. We need an independent platform".
“Social Media community standards are biased against women and queer people. Those working on setting up these standards do not understand our context and the need for our work. We need an independent platform”.
Shaimaa

Shaimaa

” I can help create our own independent website to facilitate all our work, with our own rules and without censorship”

Our journey continues

Our journey continues

By now, I hope you know a little bit more about our journey and the women who built this movement.
Some of these women are still part of The Sex Talk Arabic current team, in various capacities, some did not continue, while others continue to offer their support when the need arises. 
To honour and celebrate the contributions of all these women in building our organisation and its identity as we know it today, we acknowledge them as “Founding Members”.
By now, I hope you know a little bit more about our journey and the women who built this movement. Some of these women are still part of The Sex Talk Arabic current team, in various capacities, some did not continue, while others continue to offer their support when the need arises.  To honour and celebrate the contributions of all these women in building our organisation and its identity as we know it today, we acknowledge them as “Founding Members”.

By now, I hope you know a little bit more about our journey and the women who built this movement.
Some of these women are still part of The Sex Talk Arabic current team, in various capacities, some did not continue, while others continue to offer their support when the need arises.
To honour and celebrate the contributions of all these women in building our organisation and its identity as we know it today, we acknowledge them as
“Founding Members”.

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